When I worked with a young marketing expert last year and we wanted to find out what my "dance in femininity" stands for, I was really aware of how young women see older women. At the time, she said that the word "sexy" might not be so good for my target group, i.e. for women of this age. Why? Because this age and this word do not match…. Really now?
I think we first have to clarify for ourselves what the word "feel sexy" has for a meaning and tidy up with the myth that you are invisible from 50. My experience is: is not true! But that's not the point! It's about a attitude to life . In the end, it doesn't matter whether someone feels attracted to it or not. But not enjoying in your own life juice doesn't matter!
What radiates a "sexy woman"?
Isn't it rather that a woman is only in her full bloom when she has put her self -uncertainty and does it care what others think of her? Isn't it exactly this freedom it takes to feel completely completely completely? Around? And shouldn't "round" finally be welcome in life?
I see here in the south how young women in scarce panties and high, hardly running bars shoes, to feel sexy and, above all, to show others that they are too. Yes, you look really great and you have a wonderful tight figure and great skin!
I like them! You are really cute! And yet there is something crucial that is missing in my sensation for sex appeal:
- Self -confidence
- serenity
- Life experience
- Enjoyability
- Courage to call things by name
- Independence
- Self -care and care for others
- Outrageous lust for life
- It doesn't matter what the others say about you
- wisdom
- Self -love
- Self -acceptance
- Self -confidence
To rest and laugh at yourself makes you attractive
When I look at my life as a young woman, I was always really rushed and there was always something that didn't fit.
Or it got my attitude to life when someone had something to complain about.
Today I smile when someone wants to tell me that I got wrinkles or asks me if I have gained weight.
Yes, I say, can be. The trigger are less and there are fewer and fewer people who want to trigger me.
I just feel comfortable and I laugh a lot.
Exactly! Laugh! Laughing is so attractive for many people!
Laughing is sooooo sexy! Laughing is simply an irresistible superpower! Especially if you have the size to laugh at yourself.
What is there more attractive than a woman who rests and can still hand out clear words without being afraid of
being condemned.
My conclusion: life and love has nothing to do with a number
There is nothing better for mature women than living in the full acceptance and loving and appreciating for everything that she has done and mastered.
Because, nothing attracts you more than a woman who has recognized that she no longer has to do anything to be recognized.
She is a woman who rests calmly, can laugh out of your heart and can also breathe her anger!
She no longer takes care of what the others think about them. It developed its true glow and transformed its energy into a magnetic attraction. She is a happy, ecstatic woman who loves herself and accepts her body as he is.
The secret lies in your own fulfillment and contributes to your own beauty.
Expression has something to do with liveliness and truthfulness.
And all of this is sexy in my opinion!
In my retreats and workshops, I solve the problems in my head due to the self -acceptance of the body.
Because feeling so comfortable leads us into a natural strength and turns us women to great queens,
funny buddies and respectful society who understand to pull out the sword if it has to be!
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Wonderful and so true. I come from a family where women of all ages feel sexy and sexy. So it is not a question of age, but self -confidence, self -love and being loved, as you already say, contribute to this. Whether you are 2 years old or 84 We love high heels and we also feel more beautiful with 10 kg because we are, with a smile on our face! The way we are.