Outstanding relationships? Endure a life that is simply no longer yours? So many women - and also men - do not live in life, but in a kind of self -made life trap in which they are increasingly freezing.
Not because anyone forces anyone to do so. But because they don't have the courage to change , which is actually "okay".
But when do you leave the other? Are we expecting too much? Why do I still stop exactly where nothing moves?
And how do I find my strength and joie de vivre again?

Endure relationships or go on?

When I ask people how they are doing, I often get this answer: "Yes, okay ...
you have to ... what the hell is, life is not a sugar, so it's just ..."

So it's just ??

The wedding day, the "most beautiful day" in your life.
Oh right?
The most beautiful, so.
And what follows then goes downhill?
(A little irony can be here).

I see couples who went through thick crises and have come out so incredibly. You have my greatest respect! Because in crises to stand together and not to “throw the towel”, as you say so beautifully, leads to a big win: in depth and liveliness. You can look away or you can decide to find out who is actually really. In relationships you will find the strongest trigger points and the greatest chance to get to know yourself better and thus make better decisions for the community with or without the partner.

When is the time to go?

We get used to conditions.
Creeping is a small sentence that lets you swallow, then here a bad word ... and you just swallow down.
Eyes and yes, "others don't have it easy".
Why do we let ourselves be treated badly?
Why don't we file an objection from the start when respect begins to knock off the track?

It is enough if you feel: this life no longer fulfills me.

You don't have to be beaten or severely abused to give yourself permission.
So when "do you pull the hat" and really go?
What has to happen so that you finally make the decision to leave this relationship or marriage?

It is the fear of the new, unknown, which prevents you from drawing the consequences.
People prefer something he already knows. He is afraid of surprises.
Certainly life should be. Safe planned to death.

I wonder: where did the vitality remain?

The children! Oh yes, they are still there and as long as they are still in the house, you want to offer a good home.
No matter how much you put on a facade, children feel the energy. We can still play a good show and make a good face a good game!
Children feel that. And what do we live up to them? Worse, we are installing access to your intuition because we are wrongly affirming your perception.
Sentences like: No, you imagine that ... Mom and I love each other ... Everything is fine ... everything is fine, etc.

You can imagine what this has for the children. How should children develop confidence, i.e. develop trust in themselves when you deny their true feelings?

So what happens when the children are out of the house?
Or maybe the partner even dies in front of you?
What if life forces you to think again?

Everything "can be endured". But you don't have to!
Why wait until you collapse inside?
Gets sick. Or a secret affair begins, a double life builds.

Recently, a woman who was over 80 told her to bury her: I loved my husband, went through him through thick and thin, and accompanied him into death. But now I'm coming. I was always on the back. I had worked and it seemed to everyone and also for me okay, but now I'm looking forward to living the recent years in my life for my idea and a barrel!

Yes you can think again

I travel a lot. And when I sit in hotels, I see couples who have nothing to say. Everyone stares on the cell phone. Be silent.
You desperately book a kayak trip or a budget jump - in the hope that some liveliness will return.
But the truth is: attraction has long been lost.

Why?
Because we are no longer real .
No longer authentic .
Because we have lost the courage to set limits and to say:

"It doesn't go on like this."

Instead, we stick to the familiar - on a second skin that has long since become too narrow.
And that is the tragic: we often don't even notice it anymore.

Just like a fish that swims in the water throughout his life and does not know that there is also air and earth.
Only when it is rinsed ashore does he realize that there is another world.
And only then can he consciously perceive: What is water?

I know what I'm talking about.

I worked for a long time, remedied - in a marriage that had long been empty, and in relationships that almost eaten me, wanted to keep me small and robbed me of my strength.

But at some point there was this one moment that had changed everything. It was usually a very quiet moment.
And in it all my strength revealed itself.
I stood there, looked into the sky and felt very clearly:
"I die inside when I continue."
And I knew: I have to jump. For me. For my life.

It is the same with your life.
It's not about drama.

It's about honest, authentic, real connection - to yourself!

Because only when you are connected do you feel who you really feel. And where your path goes.

I accompany women in this back connection.
Because I know what it is like to get lost.
As it is to swallow, function, to endure -

Until the body goes on strike or the soul whispers: "Not more."

I see so many stories of people who do not dare to live and pass on reality!
Better endure the inner rigidity instead of embracing the wild, bright power of life.

But you can. You can now take the first step.

You don't have to endure.

You can live. Dear your life and inner truth. Unfiltered and real.

Learning about yourself is a life's work

In my eyes there is nothing better than getting to know yourself deeper.
Who you are, who you are not. We are conditioned and have acquired things and behaviors over time that never our goods.

The more we ask ourselves the honest questions will come when we feel very clearly: I want to live something else.

I accompany people, especially women, into the back connection to their true core.

The paths are different. It needs: 

• A stop to perceive the interior.
• Silence in the head
• Learning to listen to how birds chirp
• have the awareness of each of his action
• The recognition of his value
• Develop increasing self -love
• the courage to consequence

Do you feel that it is time to re -elect?

Then I invite you:

Come back to you - in your strength, your clarity, your vitality.
Here you will find my current retreats & offers.

I accompany women to open the space for their perception and to reactivate their liveliness.
With body work, self -confidence in her attitude of the queen.
... in a female body feeling because her self -worth is manifested .
... develop the courage for clarity, focus and love.

Because the way you feel, you can feel it! The way you feel yourself, you recognize your truth.

My current retreats:

In the desert: longing for origin
in the sea in Sicily: Dolce Vita sicily retreat
in the Ore Mountains in the middle of nature:

I also offer 1: 1 accompaniment and online courses.

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