What is the secret of attraction? Why do we feel totally attracted to some people and not for some? Can the spontaneously feel about changing and transforming it in attraction?
I deal with this topic because I want to find out in my courses about femininity what women can do to feel attractive.

The result of my research on this topic is: we don't have to do anything, we just have to be!

The first impression

What do we sometimes do for Saltos to be attractive to someone! But does this attraction work without wearing clothes and make-up in which we don't feel comfortable?
Every evening here in the 4-star hotel I sit at a table at the entrance. There I have the opportunity to see people how they enter the "room".
I perceive differences in charisma, clothing and attitude. The fragrance of perfume carries the gentle wind to my place.

I already recognize five external characteristics of the first impression:

• Clothing
• attitude
• Scent
• Eye contact
• Gestures

Presence awareness

There are people who are so clear with what they want and this feels and you can see in their attitude and appear. You can feel that you feel comfortable in your skin, you have no hanging walk and your attitude is upright, but not stiff.
Self -confidence, self -confidence, humor, friendliness and authenticity are attractive characteristics and make up the personalities that people draw.

There are people who speak just to have listeners as an audience and there are those who communicate. You listen, do not turn away and there is an exchange.
Working openly and giving him his presence can not be seen so often these days. In between, the display from the cell phone lights up and you look briefly, only briefly, who sends you a message.
This behavior has already become so normal that we no longer notice how wrong. Rather repulsive than attractive. This is how our subconscious evaluates this.

Let's imagine that we happen to meet a famous person we admire. This person would talk to us. Then your display lights up. Would you see in the middle of this conversation who calls you?
Getting attention to someone is a awareness of presence, is love and creates attraction.

So if I would meet a man on a date and he would look at his cell phone all the time, or on the phone, then that would be repulsive for me. There were times when I ignored this behavior, which it didn't do better. Today I would get up and say politely that I don't like that. To express sensations clearly without fear of losses, shows your strength and makes you attractive. With such a consistent action, you feel your value and radiate this!
If we don't love ourselves, we stand there with a begging bowl and wait for the other to fill them. You just feel the energy and energy is not lying.

But meeting someone who pays my full attention could gain attractiveness over time.

Conclusion: Attractiveness can also develop and not only have to play a role in the first encounter.

Biological facts, chemistry and hormones

From an evolutionary point of view, people are drawn to partners who promise healthy descendants. This can be physical characteristics such as symmetry, fitness, a certain appearance, cultural influences, social norms or cultural ideals of beauty.
In some cultures, wasp feasts and thick butt are loved, in some it is sexy when women are super thin and you can count the bones. Others prefer gazelles or muscular women who appear sporty. All of these are personal views that we feel drawn to certain personal types.

In the course of my life I noticed how my attraction to men has changed from time to time. I used to draw from guys like Robert Redford. Then men with a stronger growth of chest. Also with tummy. Dark -haired. Then blonde again.

From all the type of man I found attractive, I fell in love with a man who was everything else than I imagined. Today he is "the sexiest in the world" for me!

This shows me that there is something crucial behind the look that makes attraction.
When I think about it, it was the attention, the presence and its intelligence that put me on. A man who is strong and confident in his male energy.

A little story of a friend

I have a girlfriend who always looked for men who are blonde and blue -eyed. And please never a hairy chest !! Something else was never possible for her! She only looked around for this type of man. On the net, on dating platforms and in life. One day when she crossed the street, fully charged with files, she met a man who helped her to collect the files that have fallen. The emerging wind swirled the leaves in all directions! She didn't think that this man could somehow like her for a second! Absolutely not your type! Nevertheless, they met every now and then to drink coffee and cake. 

And what happened? 

He, the black -haired is from head to toe and even on his hands and back, has a lot of hair, and also looked like a Turk ... this man, a Swabian, no Turk, stood with her at the altar. She got married and I've never seen my girlfriend so happily! To this day, they are wonderful to enjoy their lifetime together in a wonderful way.

This story shows me that we shouldn't be the only feature of our ideas about what someone should look like. The great happiness is often hidden. You can take a closer look at someone so that you can feel whether this person has qualities that you could fall in love with.

Woman, sit on your throne and lamp! Everything else falls when the time is ripe for it! You don't have to chase anyone and wait for someone to fill your begging shell! Fill up with your essence and have patience and love for you!
This is magic!

Conclusion: The secret in attraction lies in self -love and in the consistent action if you are not valued!

How you can immerse yourself in this topic.

There is nothing more magical than women who are balanced in their female power.

I accompany makers from constant activity, being sensual and happy so that they develop an irresistible charisma and take the queen's place in partnerships as in business.

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